Love of Aegean Sea......

Dear blog,
Love of Aegean Sea…. This is another drama that will leave footprints on my life…. I’ll definitely remember it for a long time….. I watched lots of dramas… especially love dramas, and most of it, have the same story line…. And Love of Aegean Sea is also not exempted from this common-lovey-dovey-story-line….
Love of Aegean Sea is acted by Chae Rim as Xiao Tong, Alec Su as En Qi, and Peter Ho as Yao Xiang. The story revolves about these three friends met in Greece. Greece as a special sea named Aegean Sea, which is also known, as Love Sea….
Chae Rim and Peter Ho went for a vacation to Greece together but the problem is these two people never know each other. The whole thing to go vacation together is to reduce the financial burden of this trip. Both of them dislike each other at the first sight….. actually Xiao Tong dislike Yao Xiang at first sight because he was drunk during the flight… and caused a kiosk in the airplane…..
And in Greece, Xiao Tong met En Qi in a accident…. En Qi is from Canada, he came to Greece because of an auction. He came with his mom, Mei Ling and stay in his soon-to-be-fiancée’s house, Yi Qie, a rich girl….. Mei Ling loves Yi Qie and assumes her as her daughter in law already but, En Qi treat her as his baby sister only…. However, En Qi dislike to disobey his mom, so, he will follow his mom order and plan…. But things turn the other way round when he met Xiao Tong…… He falls in love with Xiao Tong….. they went to Aegean Sea together…. And the main character in this trip is the Plato’s Eternity… That’s forever love… in this freedom land of love…. Plato’s Eternity is a bracelet that En Qi gave it to Xiao Tong during the accident…. And that’s their love promise……
So, the story evolves around Xiao Tong and En Qi, how both of them fall in love with each other, how both of them overcome obstacles that created by En Qi’s mom, how both of them survive the 3 years break up, how Yao Xiang falls in love with Xiao Tong and be her guardian angel during her worst moment…. How Yao Xiang sacrificed for Xiao Tong for her happiness…
Though the ending is sad…. But I like the love story…. I like this story because of the love between this two people… how they stand up for each other when trouble comes, how they reasoned themselves to positive attitudes when bad things happen, how love can turns into friendship…. How friendship rekindle between…. And of course, I don’t want to deny is how Alec Su looks so good in this hair style…. I got to admit he caught my attention in this drama…. Compare to the Huang Zhu Ge Ge, he looks so much better in this drama…. With his charismatic, caring and exquisite character in this drama…..
Ok…. Ok….. me and my drama-bug are definitely come over me again for this whole month…. I need to get rid the bug as soon as I start college…..
By the way, I start with my wish-list…. Since is Hanukkah season…..
1. Yu Chun’s Cds!!!
2. Alec Su’s Mp3!!!
3. ….. not sure….

Will update later…. But most important, I hope my papa will listen to me and rest for few days to heal his knee…..May God Bless My Family……

I'm in Cosmopoint now!!!

Dear Bloggy,
I'm in Cosmopoint now..My second computer class.... and just imagine we have to wake up at 6.30am and attend a 9 o clock class which only at 9.45am..... ridiculous.... anyway, my lecturer is tlaking about Windows now.... if not mistaken , windews is OS, right???? KEkeke.... OS is Operation System... See... i so smart...
Anyway, i'm happy today because i can go back and see my King KOng... My King KOng is very healthy but veyr naughty, eveytime go back, i have to scold him.... and then, i'll go papa's shop and meet Kimberly. Kimberly is my deaf guest for my last sign language test.... she will be signing her experience in HH camp in Taiwan. I just hope that i'll do well in that class because i don't want to repeat my test again. Schedule is so tight... i need to work harder but it seems like i don't have time to study.... feeling scoring in my course... but thinking of another way, maybe i should just pass the sem.... aiyo.... i'm so pickle-minded now....
Anyway, i wrote a comment on Peter's Blog.... he wrote in the blog that he is not as though as what he seems to be all this while...Then, i felt like i'm going through the same thing... in the class, i'm regarding as a smart, hardworking and positive girl... but certains times, i can be lazy, stupid and negative thinking.... so, why am i giving myself that kind of pressure....???? But after awhile, i think to myself... i'm not a perfect person... i'm not guardian... i'm just God's child.... That's why i know i should not give pressure to myself.... and should not allow anybody to give me pressure and kill me....
ANyway, two days ago, is his day... i spent the whole day mourning for him.... I wonder what is he doing now????? Is he looking at me???? Did he saw me wearing the clip??? I just want to tell him he is forever my big brother..... KO.... i wish you a better life there.... Hope you also wish me the best..... and take care of me as ever....
OK.... i got to go.... my lecturer already informed us that he knows what i'm doing while he teach.... is from the reflection from the class behind me.... Kekekeke..... blog later...
Peter, if you reading this.... you are one tough guy even you are going through your weaker self now..... take care....

Innocent Witch....

STRESS!!!!

Dear bloggy,
Just came back yesterday.... Feel so tired this week because lots of things happen. I felr so stressed but after i read Peter's blog, i feel so good and happy because my question provoke him and give him a insight of himself... it means i just make another person's life better. Not only that, everytime, i chatted with him, i learnt to more new things. THere are so many things i dunno and yet i want to learn....
Anyway, talk bout the problems when i feel like it...
Innocentwitch

Back...

Dear Bloggy,
                         I'm back!!!! But i have to go off soon, so, just wanna tell everyone, i'm fine and sweety, trying to cramp myself with those medical terms!!! YUCK!!!!

Innocentwitch

Top 20 qualities of Smart People!!!

Top 20 Qualities of Smart People by Michelle L. Casto

In today's competitive world, it pays to be smart. No matter how smart you are, I am sure there is something you could "get smarter" about. Below are some qualities of smart people. As you read the list, ask yourself: Am I as smart as I could be in this area? How could I get smarter?

1. Make Decisions Intuitively Smart people listen to and follow their intuition. They know how intuitions and insights come to them and are tuned-in internally to make wise decisions.

2. Are Self-Aware Smart people are aware of who they are--- strengths, weaknesses, personality, values, etc. As Confucius once said, "He who knows others is wise, he who knows himself is enlightened," they know that the most important and interesting thing to know about is "self."

3. Use Active Reflection Smart people reflect on and learn from past experiences, finding out what works and what doesn't, and then adjusts their course of action as needed. They think about things before jumping in, and also take the time after-the-fact to actively reflect to fully understand what happened or didn't happen.

4. Think Out-of-Box Smart people can easily entertain new ideas, thoughts, and ways of doing things. They crave progressive and forward thinking information, concepts, and people. They often come up with new and radical ideas on a regular basis.

5. Have An Open-Mind Smart people are open to different perspectives and see potential where most people don't. They would agree with what the quote, "A mind is like a parachute, it only functions when it is open." They are comfortable with paradoxes and can relate to many sides of an issue or opinion.

6. Are Responsive Smart people recognize and respond quickly to opportunities and people. They act and react fast, and take care of what needs to be taken care-of, well ahead of schedule.

7. Are Resourceful Smart people don't have to know it all, but they do know where to go to get whatever information, resources, training, education that they need. They are well-networked and have people to call on for resource referrals.

8. Question Authority Smart people think for themselves. They do not blindly believe things so-called "experts" say, in fact, they ask deep questions to discover their own truth.

9. Upgrade Their Brain Smart people stay smart because they are committed to being a lifelong learner. They continuously learn new things, and stay current with their skills, attitudes, and beliefs.

10. Have a Sense of Humor Smart people do not take themselves or life too seriously. They recognize the importance of finding the fun in the irony and the comedy of everyday life.

11. Take Risks Smart people are willing to try out new things, knowing that if it doesn't work out as intended, failure is often cleverly disguised as a learning opportunity. They "swing out there" often, and it usually pays off.

12. Trust Themselves Smart people believe and trust themselves first and foremost. They don't have to check with others to make decisions, they instinctively know what is right for them and they go for it!

13. Write and List Things on Paper Smart people have a well-developed life strategy that includes a written life vision/mission, purpose, and goals statement. They also write lists---one for "have to's" and one for "want to's."

14. Are Productive Smart people get things done, through whatever organizational/time management system that works for them. They make the most of each day and take action on important life tasks each and everyday.

15. Use Discernment Smart people are able to discern (see clearly) other's reasons and motives, so they selectively choose who and what to align themselves with. They surround themselves with only the highest quality people, programs, and places.

16. Read, Read, Read Smart people tap into the collective brain power of others by reading books, magazines, articles---anything that is helpful for their own development. They are also able to filter out the information that fits for them and let the rest go.

17. Value Learning Smart people value the process of learning for learning's sake. They do not just learn for a specific end---to get a certificate, degree, title, etc. They learn because it is intrinsically rewarding for them.

18. Teach Others Smart people are the teachers of the world, who share their knowledge with other people. They put themselves out there so the rest of us can benefit, and in exchange, their own learning grows and develops because they are actively talking about, researching, and understanding their subject.

19. Reinvent Themselves Smart people do not like to stay the same, they love to grow and develop. They often play with their image, brand, company name, and expand or change it entirely. To stay ahead of the game, they often reinvent themselves time and time again.

20. Are Students of Life Smart people not only know about specific subjects and topics, but also about what it means to be a human being at this time in our evolution. They are insatiably curious and want to know more about becoming bigger and brighter, as a result they naturally evolve.

As Lao Tzu said, "To gain knowledge, add things everyday. To gain wisdom, remove things everyday." This is so true, our brain is like a computer and in order for it to function at a higher level, we must always be adding, while simultaneously taking away information that no longer serves us. Think about it, what do you want to remove from your database? And, what new software program will you replace it with?

Emotional Quotient

 
Emotional Quotient
 
         What is EQ? Emotional Quotient or our emotional intelligence is basically how we use our emotions given a situation. It is the “intentional” use of your emotions so that they work for you anywhere, anyplace. The important factor is motivation to learn, and then practice it. There are “four buildings blocks” that give rise to your emotional intelligence.

The ability to accurately perceive, appraise and express emotion.
The ability to access or generate feelings on demand when they can facilitate understanding of yourself or another person.
The ability to understand emotions and the knowledge that’s derived from them
The ability to regulate emotions to promote emotional and intellectual growth.
 
          The first rule to becoming emotionally intelligent is to develop “self-awareness.” What this means is to be conscious of “how you feel” You learn to monitor your feelings and how they affect you.
            This is where self-talk comes in. you are expected to talk things through in your mind; what you feel and what you will say and how you will say it. When you say something you are expected to look at your actions and see how these affect the other person and how every person responds to what you say. This is a nightmare, you will tell me. And I will say “Yes, it is!” But it will teach you that the means to the desired end, not just the end itself, is important.
          If you are really keen to develop your EQ, you must be highly motivated. Why? Because there are hundred reasons of reasons every day that will upset or irritate you and make you mad.
          You have to be constantly positive in your outlook and thinking. Not only must people around see the difference you are trying to make in yourself, you also have to attend to your daily chores as well as manage your people. And all this is not easy.
         The next step is to be a good communicator. Effective communication, whether it is body language, face-to-face contact, letters or e-mail are vital for EI. You must know how to express your feelings, thoughts and even your wants. You must be able to stand up for what you believe.
         Be assertive and at the same time learn to respect other people’s opinions and beliefs. Good communication also means learning to listen to what others are saying. A good leader listen to what others are saying. A good leader with an effective EQ knows how to listen to his team members.
       If you have to be critical, you must know how and when to criticize. Learning to be sensitive to others is also an important criterion for a leader with good EI. “How would I feel if someone said that to me and how would I respond?”
       No one person can develop and practice EI without including others. A workplace is an integrated system. No one works alone. That is the reason why everybody is encouraged to learn EI.
        Upon learning, you can help others manage their emotions, you learn to communicate effectively with people at work and with outsiders, and you’re able to your subordinates and colleagues solve problems as well as resolve their conflicts. Above all, people tend to be motivated because the work environment becomes more condusive.        Be nice to people when you go up the corporate ladder because  when you come down, they will still be there.

ANatomy is better now.... I suck at it only!!!!!

Dear Bloggy,

                    Is Saturday!!! And, i'm at home!!! After few days in hostel, i felt very homesick!!! I miss my mama and papa. And i hate washing my own clothes without washing machine. And i hate the vending washing machine in my hostel because the water is so yellow. It dirty my clothes more. And i hate thinking what should i eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner.  And i hate living myself without my computer and internet access. But, i love to stay in hostel with my roomates. I love the studies in physiotherapy. Though at first, anatomy and me have nothing in common, but now, when i get to know it, i feel better. In fact, i kinda like remember the words. Such as Greater tubercle, Lesser Turbecle, Medial Epicondyle and many more. Kekeke, i may hate it later when there are more to remember. I love the fact to know that i know how to take care of myself alone. I love the fact that i'm a very flexible person. I love the fact that i can adapt myself to anywhere. So now, i'm balancing myself. Now trying to figure out, do i ahte or love it more???? For those who are away from home.... I salute you all!!!!! You got my respect!!!!!

            Anyway, now i have to do my English Assignment.... My goodness, i'm not saying anything but i'm repeating Form 3 English!!!!!! I just don't know why i can fall asleep in English class and Physic too cause i'm repeating form 5 Physic. Howlah??? where i can get the books??? Must try to search back all my physic notes!!!! And need to get some good anatomy and physiology books. Luckily, i have Maggie and ANu.... At least, they know what is happening around.... And maggie!!!! I just can;t wait for your Dexter!!! Hope you will be back soon!!!

         However, i felt a little pressure with my room mates because they study very hard. so now, should i study too??? Should i memorize the muscle now??? I think i better go and sleep now cause i keep yawning non stop....

       Nite nite bloggy!!!

Innocentwitch!!!! wants to sleep now!!!!!

ANATOMY SUCK!!!!

Dear Bloggy,

Now is already 8am.... going to school soon.... telling the thruth, i don't feel like leaving this house cause i ahve eveything hjere but there, i have to do everything myself... cooking, laundry, cleaning and everything.... and anatomy suck!!!! I need to find out what is the scapula and humerus!!!!!!!?????? better try to get someone gives me some books to study.... need to be more kiasu!!!!
ok... no time, gtg... next week, i blog again...

innocentwitch!!!1

Dear bloggy,
I just did a test in Tickle. WHAT IS MY CINDERELLA STORY???? i always like Cinderella. She is so not lucky!!!! Need to go through so much to get the prince's notice. Poor girl.... Anyway, this is the prediction. Which is true about me....

Kiss the Prince

You don't need the pouffy dress, the fancy hair, or the 3-inch glass heels. A romantic soul like you just wants a guy who's a true companion, a good friend, a real prince. And if he's hot? All the better. But ultimately, you know that home is where the heart is. Which is probably why you surround yourself with good friends you can take care of and laugh with — friends who will do the same for you.

But that doesn't keep you from fantasizing about the perfect relationship. It's not that you don't have your feet firmly planted on the ground. It's just that you're not afraid to shoot high. Or wish upon a shooting star. So keep reaching for your goals, Cinderella. If you do, your happily ever after can't be far away. And you can seal that with a kiss.

Kekeke... anyway, waiting for the time to pass cause got to attend my first class today. Of course, i'm still on Medical leave. The doctor gave me extra days but i still want to attend my class, everyone starts except me already. i need to be more kiasu .... or else, i'll leave out... Anyway, my class is so weird... 10.30-4 is at HKL and then 6-8 is at UPM. I think i better skip some of my anatomy class so i can go for my sign languaga class which only left 6 classes. I'm sure i can talk soemthing to the dean. Maybe i should...

Aiyo, my signs are getting weaker everyday... because i seldom meet Kim and her friends. Must try to work something out so i can meet them every week and my test.,.. haven;t decide who can be my deaf guest!!! RUISHAN!!! You got to make it or else, i must find other people... this is so sad!!! Who i can find to be my deaf guest???? My circle of deaf friends is so small!!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!! DEAF PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!! Please help me!!!! Kekekekeke

Anyway, pity Anne Laura, she got to helps me prepare the letter.... must thanks her later..... anyway, will go Y later and tomorrow, i'll go bakc to hostel, *sob* later, sure no internet again... dunno when have chance to write again. Must try to arrange my schedule as fast as possible!!!!!

Ok... stop blogging here... tata!`!!!!

Innocentwitch!!!!

DENGUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Dear Bloggy,
I'm back!!!!!!!!!!! Finally from hospital, from hostel, from school, from dengue!!!!
Ok... i went to school on 1st... and my orientation also quite ok for the first day but on the second day,i got fever and then went home. Fever for few days, then on the 8th day, i went to general hospital, yes, the place, i suppose to study, and TADA~~~~~ I got dengue and stayed in hospital for the 4 days.... but now, is better, after two more days, i'll go study... gtg.... blog later

I'm a fatty gurl!!!

Der Bloggy,
I very full now.... Just had our late dinner... rell late dinner.... well, we went to vistit our relative. My favourite uncle and auntie form my mother side. And still got two more days, then i'll go study!!!! so scare... dunno can adjust or not... never mind, i blog next time cause my dial up no more money!!!!

Tata.... Innocentwitch said she is going to be fatty!!!!

Understanding Attractions!!!!

Understanding Attraction

1) You could be attracted to a guy because he looks and acts like you.
2) On the other hand, you might go for anyone that looks stunning enough to make your friends drool at mouth.
3) Psychologists believe that like attracts like. You only go for men with the same low or high level of self-confidence.
4) Guys that do you wrong but still make you swoon are not good for your self-esteem.
5) If you don’t think you deserve love, you’re more likely to go for the man who plays around, reinforcing your belief that you’re unlovable. And it’s a belief that can stop you dumping that tiresome pest, because you don’t believe you’ll find anyone better. Think again.
6) Do you have a subconscious fear of getting too involved? Do you find yourself provoking arguments if he gets too close?
7) Are you afraid of rejection? Do you suffocate your men?
8) Man-hopping may be fun, but if you’re up for something long-term, don’t jump into another man’s Jacuzzi while your ex’s have sheets are still warm. Single Dom means you’re just taking a breather.
9) You may find your ex’s have a lot more common that the fact that you picked them. Examining past relationships, good or bad, may point to why you go for the ones you do.
10) Go after men with your eyes wide open, and you won’t be disappointed.
11) How do you spot the perfect man for you??
· He is the one who wants to help you grow; who doesn’t walk out at the first crossword; who understands that relationships have bad times; whose idea of long-term isn’t three weeks; who takes time to find out about you and communicate with you.